My Sexual Safe.

What horrors lie in our sexual safe? What memories have we locked away hidden forever from the light of day? Were you raped as a child? Does the grunt and huff of your assailant still ring in your ears, playing an unforgettable music?

Does the bitterness of your treasure so cruelly snatched away still engulf you? Has the taste of your own blood drawn by wicked lips pressed against your unwilling mouth refused to leave you?

Were you misused by those who should have protected you?

Have you been a victim of domestic abuse? Bruised and battered so badly that your self-confidence is zero? No one heard your screams, no one saw the tears.

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Sexual Wellbeing Network.

Do you live with the consequences of a careless moment?

Do you have a positive HIV result or consequences of a chlamydia infection?

What horrors will unfold if the light was shone on your sexual safe?

Guess what? It doesn’t matter!!

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Sexual Wellbeing Network

We can choose to let the past be past or allow it strangle our future.

We can decide to empty the safe, clean it out, clear it out and allow freshness to come. What are we keeping those ugly memories safe for anyway?

It starts with forgiving yourselves, loving who you are. The Unique You! The past has no hold over you except what you permit it.

Yes, it hurt! Yes, it was cruel! Tears gather as you remember again. It feels just like yesterday. We cant deny that it happened or hasn’t left its scars but we look to the future now.

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Sexual Wellbeing Network

We determine to dust ourselves up and press to a glorious future. Because we are worth it! Because we deserve love and respect! Because no one is allowed to steal our joy and future!

This is the season to forgive and forget. Receive Peace and Strength to reach for the best you.
We know there is greatness in you! You are beautiful inside and outside! You survived so you are a Hero!
Wishing you a Fabulous New Year from the Sexual Wellbeing Network!

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Remembering Nelson Mandela (1918-2013). Rest in Peace, Madiba!

I couldn’t help posting this lovely article by the awesome brain behind the Whole Woman Network- Juliet Ume. It articulates the emotions we all have in our hearts as we think of the passing of our hero and friend Nelson Mandela.
Remembering also the passing away of Juliet’s own father 3years ago on the same day.
Farewell loved ones!
We promise to ‘show up in our own lives and live life fully, passionately and purposefully.’

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Nelson“No one is born hating another person because of the colour of his skin, or his background or his religion. People learn to hate and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love. For love comes more naturally to the human heart than it’s opposite.” ~Nelson Mandela (1918-2013)~

This is a note to the bereaved and the grievers, the mourners and the weepers, the criers and the wailers: Blessed are ye who mourn, for ye shall be comforted. 

December 5th is a poignant date that will always be etched in  my heart and spirit for as long as I live. The reasons: 3 years ago today, I co-founded  the Whole Woman Network, WWN, with a good friend of mine.  WWN as an organization, represents and embodies my life-long desire and purpose to empower and transform lives. It was something beautiful to celebrate the launch and it…

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