Sex in the New Year

What would your life look like if you aimed at higher goals?
What amazing feats would you amaze the world with if you dared to get on the dance floor?
Sometimes one comes across a word or has an encounter that completely revolutionises one’s life. Jessie Rittenhouse’s lovely poem “My Wage” below did it for me. I have posted it here for your pleasure.
As we get into the new year, what changes are you going to make in your sexual habits??

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Sexual Wellbeing Network

Ladies, it all starts with realising that you are of great worth and deserving of love and respect!

You are not a manikin to be poked and prodded at.
You are not a punch bag to be abused with blows both verbal and physical.

Young girls, standing at street corners or hiding in dirty shop rooms and allowing anyone to put their dirty fingers up your precious bits or fondle your breasts is not the way to go – you deserve more than that!

Young men, the time for ‘bang, bang, and bye’ has passed -treat girls with respect! Learn chivalry- its a good thing!

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Sexual Wellbeing Network

Spouses, selfless love is the new cool!
There’s no greater turn-on for a lady than to be treated with tenderness and care.
Ladies, praise your man! See him with the eyes of what he could become and not what he is now and he will become what you desire.

Let the lovely poem below energise you to reach for the best life can offer. Meditate on the last verse especially and watch your greatness unfold!

My Wage.

I bargained with Life for a penny and life would pay no more. However I begged at evening when I counted my scanty store.

For Life is a just employer,
He gives you what you ask,
But once you have set the wages,
Why, you must bear the task.

I worked for a menial’s hire,
Only to learn, dismayed,
That any wage I had asked of Life,
Life would have paid.

 Jessie B. Rittenhouse (1869 – 1948)

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My Sexual Safe.

What horrors lie in our sexual safe? What memories have we locked away hidden forever from the light of day? Were you raped as a child? Does the grunt and huff of your assailant still ring in your ears, playing an unforgettable music?

Does the bitterness of your treasure so cruelly snatched away still engulf you? Has the taste of your own blood drawn by wicked lips pressed against your unwilling mouth refused to leave you?

Were you misused by those who should have protected you?

Have you been a victim of domestic abuse? Bruised and battered so badly that your self-confidence is zero? No one heard your screams, no one saw the tears.

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Do you live with the consequences of a careless moment?

Do you have a positive HIV result or consequences of a chlamydia infection?

What horrors will unfold if the light was shone on your sexual safe?

Guess what? It doesn’t matter!!

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Sexual Wellbeing Network

We can choose to let the past be past or allow it strangle our future.

We can decide to empty the safe, clean it out, clear it out and allow freshness to come. What are we keeping those ugly memories safe for anyway?

It starts with forgiving yourselves, loving who you are. The Unique You! The past has no hold over you except what you permit it.

Yes, it hurt! Yes, it was cruel! Tears gather as you remember again. It feels just like yesterday. We cant deny that it happened or hasn’t left its scars but we look to the future now.

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Sexual Wellbeing Network

We determine to dust ourselves up and press to a glorious future. Because we are worth it! Because we deserve love and respect! Because no one is allowed to steal our joy and future!

This is the season to forgive and forget. Receive Peace and Strength to reach for the best you.
We know there is greatness in you! You are beautiful inside and outside! You survived so you are a Hero!
Wishing you a Fabulous New Year from the Sexual Wellbeing Network!

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